DOs and DON'Ts
At its worst, social justice work can divide a church. It can spark political battles, alienate members and set a climate in which everyone is self-righteously pointing fingers at one another. At its best, social justice work can strengthen and enlarge a congregation. It can build community, nourish the spiritual life of members, and shape public life. This tip sheet will provide some guidelines on how to avoid the pitfalls commonly encountered in this type of work while unleashing the “change agent” potential within your congregation.
Things you want to DO!
- Be the change you want to see. Bring your Highest Self into this work. Demonstrate compassion, respect and patience with everyone - even those with whom you differ significantly.
- Ground your work in our shared values. Try opening and/or closing your meetings with a reading or song.
- Find your focus. If you are going to effect change, you need to focus your energies. Avoid the temptation to try to address every issue that moves you.
- Try different tactics: when trying to engage members of your church into your efforts, try maximizing your efforts by offering a variety of opportunities for involvement to account for different personality types. Consider alternately offering hands-on activities (e.g., making lunches for homeless teens or building a Habitat house), educational events (e.g., lectures or teach-ins), and legislative advocacy efforts (letter-writing campaigns, visits with your elected official or working on a ballot measure).
- Learn and share leadership skills. Effective social justice leaders need to be "big picture" types who can facilitate meetings, read group dynamics and help respectfully moderate conflict.
- Be inclusive. Our members vary in many ways. Some members are long-term "pillars," while others are brand new. Some are wealthy; others struggle to make ends meet. We are youth, young adults, folks with children, folks in chairs, seniors, single, married, divorced, LGBT and straight. Our ethnicities vary, as do our cultures, our politics and our understandings of the Sacred. We need to intentionally involve everyone and welcome new faces.
- Get organized. Fellowship and spontaneity are fine and good but they can derail social justice work in they are not a structured part of an organized agenda. Consider the following:
- Start and end meetings on time.
- Assign a facilitator and timekeeper for each meeting.
- Stick to your agenda. If an item arises that must be discussed, check in with the group to determine which agenda item(s) will be omitted until next time.
Things you DON'T want to do!
- Don't be judgmental. In an attempt to "enlighten" people into living or speaking the "right" way, many well-intentioned people put all of their energy into laying blame, assigning guilt, or catching people in politically incorrect acts. The result of this style of "enlightenment" is ALIENATION.
- Don't allow Burn Out to infect you. If it's not feeding your soul, don't do it. Social justice work should add to your enjoyment of life, stimulating both heart and mind. If you feel depleted, you are either taking on too much work or the wrong kind of work.
- Don't give up. It is not easy to alter long-established patterns. Change takes time, especially if that change is to be long lasting. We will not fix all of the world's problems in our lifetimes. Rather, we must just "keep on keeping on" in the most loving, compassionate, equitable and effective way possible.
- Don't be afraid to ask for help. If you find yourself struggling to move ahead with Social Justice work, please contact someone with knowledge in this area. Here are some possible resources:
Identity-Based Ministries
(617) 948-6475 idbm@uua.org
Information & Public Witness
(617) 948-4652 info@uua.org
Office of BGLT Concerns
(617) 948-6475 obgltc@uua.org
Washington Office for Advocacy
(202) 296-4672 uuawo@uua.org
JUUST Change Anti-Oppression Consultancy Program http://omd.uua.org/resources/JUUST.html